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115: Holiday Season Sadness & Depression: Embracing Self-Love & Reconnecting with Your Inner Child
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115: Holiday Season Sadness & Depression: Embracing Self-Love & Reconnecting with Your Inner Child

Where is the holiday season magic? In this episode, I answer a listener question from someone feeling sad, depressed, and lonely this holiday season. I explore ways to process and accept these emotions, reconnect with your inner child to rediscover holiday magic, and practice self-love. We also discuss the importance of taking care of yourself this holiday season.

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114: How to Be Comfortable with Physical Touch After Sexual Assault
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114: How to Be Comfortable with Physical Touch After Sexual Assault

In this episode I talk about how to become comfortable with physical touch after sexual assault. Many survivors of sexual trauma struggle with sex and being touched after sexual violence. In this episode I discuss the importance of being kind to yourself, how to practice awareness and listening to your body, and reconnecting to your body .

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113: Repressed Memories of Childhood Trauma: How to Trust Yourself & Your Body
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113: Repressed Memories of Childhood Trauma: How to Trust Yourself & Your Body

In this episode, I answer a listener question about processing repressed memories of childhood sexual trauma and how we can learn to trust ourselves. Throughout this episode, I discuss my own experiences with repressed memories of sexual trauma. I discuss how self-doubt is common when processing repressed memories of trauma, how to listen to your body, the importance of acceptance, and how to practice gentleness with yourself throughout this process.

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112: Why Do I Seek Parental Validation as an Adult?
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112: Why Do I Seek Parental Validation as an Adult?

In this episode, I answer a question from a listener who is wondering why they still seek validation from their parents even though they already know their parents are unsupportive and are often left feeling unhappy. I discuss how so often our need for parental validation and approval is tied to deep rooted human fears, including the fear of rejection, the fear of abandonment, the fear of criticism, and the fear of being unlovable.

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111: Sexual Assault by a Family Member: Navigating Family Relationships After Trauma
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111: Sexual Assault by a Family Member: Navigating Family Relationships After Trauma

In this episode, I answer a question from a listener who was sexually assaulted by their biological father and is looking for guidance on how to navigate this situation and get support from their family. Navigating relationships with family and friends after sexual assault often feels scary, uncomfortable, overwhelming, and uncertain. It becomes even more complicated when the perpetrator of the abuse is intertwined within the family.

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110: Should I Stay or Should I Leave?
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110: Should I Stay or Should I Leave?

In this episode, I answer a question from a listener who is debating leaving her husband who has narcissistic traits and has been manipulative and controlling in the past. When she told him that she was leaving the relationship, he begged for a second chance and did start to change his behavior. Now, the listener is having trouble deciding if she should stay or leave the relationship.

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106: why do I always feel alone? healing from the feeling of loneliness
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106: why do I always feel alone? healing from the feeling of loneliness

Why do so many of us feel alone? Why do we feel alone even when we are with other people? Where does this feeling of loneliness come from? In this episode, I answer a question from a listener who is wondering why they always feel lonely. I discuss the feeling of loneliness, how it is present for so many of us, and how we can begin to heal, feel, and process feeling lonely.

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104: 6 Pillars of the Self-Love System: How Practicing Self-Love Helps Us to Feel Enough for Loving Relationships
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104: 6 Pillars of the Self-Love System: How Practicing Self-Love Helps Us to Feel Enough for Loving Relationships

In this episode I outline my Self-Love System and the 6 pillars for practicing self-love. By practicing the self-love system, you will learn how to love yourself one step at a time. Through self-love you will remember your worth, enoughness, and lovability, and feel confident attracting the love you are seeking.

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101: Can You Cheat on Someone Who You Aren’t Technically Dating?
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101: Can You Cheat on Someone Who You Aren’t Technically Dating?

In this episode, I answer a question from a listener who wants to know whether they need to feel guilty for cheating on someone they aren’t technically dating? We will explore the feelings of guilt and learn why avoiding difficult conversations with partners and lovers can lead to unforeseen difficulties down the road.

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